Life Ellen Pompeo talks race, marriage and reveals she hasn’t spoken to Patrick Dempsey since 2015 December 10, 2018Erin Jensen, USA TODAYComments Off on Ellen Pompeo talks race, marriage and reveals she hasn’t spoken to Patrick Dempsey since 2015 "I have no hard feelings toward him. He's a wonderful actor..." Ellen Pompeo said of Patrick Dempsey on Monday's "Red Table Talk".