Money Romance scams surge so hold onto your sweetheart’s hand and your wallet on Valentine’s Day February 12, 2019Paul Davidson, USA TODAYComments Off on Romance scams surge so hold onto your sweetheart’s hand and your wallet on Valentine’s Day As Valentine's Day nears, be warned. Romance scams are rising. Losses totaled $143 million in 2018, up from $33 million in 2015.