Life Selena Gomez ‘was kind of a mess’ while writing ‘Lose You To Love Me’ but has since healed January 15, 2020Rasha Ali, USA TODAYComments Off on Selena Gomez ‘was kind of a mess’ while writing ‘Lose You To Love Me’ but has since healed Selena Gomez opens up in a Billboard interview about why it took her so long to release "Rare" and what the songs mean to her now.