Life My boyfriend hasn’t taken me on a date in 4 years and refuses to be intimate. When do I end it? April 11, 2022April 11, 2022Morgan Absher, USA TODAYComments Off on My boyfriend hasn’t taken me on a date in 4 years and refuses to be intimate. When do I end it? My boyfriend stopped wanting to be intimate, stopped buying me flowers, hasn't taken me on a date in about four years and rarely compliments me.